One of the sweet ladies at church took my husband aside and told him that she could tell that he and I were still in love after 10 years. She could see that we were a truly happy couple. He and I are best of friends; I share everything with him and he with me. I am most comfortable when I am with him, call me co-dependent.
If someone from the outside can tell that we are not only together but completely and totally happy, we are projecting our love outward. We should have that sort of relationship with God. Others should be able to see us and know that there is a deeply personal relationship with our Lord. We should all be most comfortable when we are with Him. Since He is always with us, we have only to realize this and all our anxiety would wither.
The fountain of Christ's love is deeper and wider than any love we have ever known before.
Greater love has no one than this, that he lay down his life for his friends.
1 John 3:16 NIV
This is how we know what love is: Jesus Christ laid down his life for us. And we ought to lay down our lives for our brothers.
I did a search for "Love" on my favorite Bible site and it returned with 500 hits. I don't need a search engine to tell me that God loves me five hundred times over. I feel it every day. I know that when I rely on Jesus, I am at peace. Brother Terry said that when we are truly born again that our lives change. I can't remember back that far if my heart was different. I have had to block out a lot of my childhood. I do know that since I have rededicated my life to Christ, that it is wonderful to be in His house. It bothers me to find myself in the sins of my past person.
Everyone needs to be able to look at us and know that we love our Father with all our hearts. We need to be a daily reminder to them that He loves them, too. I hope that I am that Christian in other's eyes, but I really do try.